Tnx for learning the lesson. I've only done this twice and instinct said ask for deposit. One lady still owes me 1oo I don't stress over it - I think peopke think because u quilt u are a nice. Person and have nothing else to do but cater to them. I am often asked "will u make me one". I just give them a blank stir as if I didn't hear the question. Good luck in future dealing with non quilters