I'm with others -- "me time" makes you a better, more relaxed mother. It also teaches the children that YOU have rights, too. It will make you more interesting for your kids, your spouse and your friends. Children WILL survive without mom taking care of them 24/7. But also know, that you have a long life ahead of you...it may take you a coupla years to get done what you want done....you'll have time.........RELAX!