Check out other public facilities. Michael's Arts & Crafts here in Tucson has a room that they advertise can be used. Probably for older kids so they can do an art project while partying. But something else like that. Community spaces? Churches? When you find someplace that you like. Offer to pay for it as part of your birthday present to her. Also what about having it at one of the houses of friends that would be coming to the party? Good Luck. The perfect solution is waiting for you to stumble across it :lol: :lol: