I agree with you I don't make my bed unless someone is comming over and will see it. Eat what I want take a nap when I chose to but would give it all up to have my DH back. Getting old has its good points and some bad points the only thing that stops me from staying in my pj all day when my fybromyalgis flares up or sjogrens desides to make my joints hirt like carzy is my dog have to take her out