quiltmom, Don't know how old you are, but, right at first those sags and pounds seem to matter a lot. After a few more years, more sags and more pounds, you just figure ,"what the heck! LOL I fought the weight thing all my life it seemed, always thought I had to look extra nice. By the time I hit 50, I was just plain tired of watching my diet while everyone else enjoyed food. I finally just stopped fretting about it. I am who I am, and you know, my family and friends think I am pretty special. I tell my kids I earned every gray hair raising them, and every wrinkle because of all the smiles I had because of the grandchildren!!LOL