Awwww (((HUGS))) this is awesome!! (((HUGS))) DD looks so cute sitting at her machine :D:D:D
I have an autistic niece, so I know exactly what you mean!!
Have you thought about glue basting? There wouldn't be any pins needed, unless you don't want her using an iron? Maybe she could glue and you could heat set?
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