Hi Suzi! Wow! I am impressed with your desire to do all this and I believe that it can be done. What I suggest is that you put everything away except ONE project. When you go to your sewing table, work on that project, finish it and then bring out another. You will be amazed at how much you will get done. One Christmas my A daughter was struggling through rehab and I suggested that we make Carry-on bags for the women in our family. We started at the beginning of Nov and by Christmas we had made every man, woman and child in our family (including her mother my husband's ex-wife) a carry-on bag, 22 of them. It was great therapy for her and I learned that "it can be done!" We had a great time and became better friends than ever before. Good luck and remember, there is no score card, just do the best you can. Everyone will love you no matter what.