I hear you. My DMIL was in a nursing home that was highly recommended by a friend but the so-called nursing was minimal at best. She was legally blind with macular degeneration and her meals were brought in and left. She couldn't even see her plate let alone get it on her fork and into her mouth. No one came to help her eat. I was disgusted but could not get her into another place before she passed away. Your jail switch sounds good to me!