Take one box of 'nilla wafers and crush the cookies thoroughly. I just use the rolling pin and crush them in the wrapper. Add any candied fruit you like along with walnuts, pecans and raisins and flaked coconut. Add one can of sweetened condensed milk, I prefer Eagle Brand. Mix all ingredients thoroughly and press into a loaf pan( I put mine in a 9x12 glass baking dish) Store covered in Refridgerator until ready to serve. Can be made the night before.