I can see your issue! They certainly meant well. My DH built a big board ironing board for me. It is a beauty! Of course, he made it deluxe in every way! A bit wider too! Very nice indeed! Envy of my sewing group, they all want one! He won't do theirs, I feel special that he would do that for me! You should feel special too! It sure beats not having one!
I am one of the lucky ones, he can build anything! It can withstand hurriance winds too!