Good for you! You should! I have given so few of my handmade items to family members. I have been hurt too many times in the past. It's not that I don't want to share, or give them a gift of them, but I have just grown tired of being hurt in the past, or hearing unkind remarks afterwards. We all have hearts too, right, so we need to be careful & protect ours too. I recently told my SD, who lives in CA, about this, said if she were here sometime, & loved one I made, I would more than likely, give it to her. But send one, & not know colors or likes & dislikes, no way. I want my quilts to be used & loved, or on display at least, not stashed in a closet, unappreciated & forgotten! .....