My mom did it all...including working over 40 hours a week. She was NOT a happy woman...and it showed.
William may do the lion's share when it comes to cooking and cleaning, but there's absolutely no doubt in his mind that he's loved. He doesn't care much for the cleaning part, and I DO help him with that most of the time...and I cook a LITTLE bit...but he loves to cook...we both work full time...and neither of us sees any reason why the cooking and cleaning should be exclusively "pink jobs"...
He takes good care of me...because he likes to and wants to...not because he has to.