Originally Posted by luvTooQuilt
Originally Posted by bearisgray
It took many years before I finally figured out that my husband equates cooking/being fed with being loved.
I don't have to "fix fancy" - just "fix pleasantly" - and he's usually content.
:roll: :| :-)
He's generally quite flexible about how I do most things - the least I can do is put some prepared food in front of him now and then.
Thats exactly the way it is here.. But then again - Not to raise argument on this board- I was raised that the woman does the cooking and housework and the man does all the crappy other stuff..
I think our "roles" are more flexible now - although it seemed that one was more likely to see a woman milking a cow "back then" than to see a man washing dishes.