I'm thankful I have my husband to help. He won't ask unless he really needs help which is seldom. If i mention something I saw on here and think it would help such as the lift for my machine, boards for rolling quilt on etc. he will go out to the garage and when he comes back in he has made whatever I had mentioned. My husband is 74 years old and we have been married 52 years, thankful he needs help with things as I do also.He is my best friend and I wouldn't trade him for all the gold in the world. Be thankful ladies they could be asking another woman for help.