Oh how I feel your frustration. I am the oldest of six children, and I have made quilts for my two sisters and a niece. That was last year for Christmas.
There are some "issues" in my family where some of my sibs have not spoken to me for the several months. Yet, one of my sisters told me I should make a quilt for my brothers. What? I love all of my siblings dearly and I am sorry they do not want to speak to me, it is just not in my heart to make them a quilt.
I want to add that I have made several attempts to speak with them, they don't return my emails or phone calls. :(
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JulieM