After asking for help with a border, I decided to just use the self-border of the square. I took it to a local FA quilter who did the quilting and sewed the binding on. I hand stitched it to the back and as I did I prayed for the recipient. He's a single guy who has a heart of gold but needs the Lord and a wife (in that order!). I hope he loves it and will know my husband and I wish him well.
The pattern is Bonnie Scotsman-
http://quilting.about.com/od/blockof...lt-pattern.htm
Quilting
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Backing
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