I won't be in chat, but I've just seen that my angelee won't be there either.
I've sent out a parcel to my person this week, and I have one last one going out probably on Saturday. I will send xpresspost, and hopefully she will get it within a few days, way before the deadline anyway.
I revealed my real identity in this last parcel, I'm sure she hasn't gotten it yet, but it should be soon.