So sorry for the loss of your friend..Hugs and love going out to you...I am dealing with the loss of my stepfather Nov 17,2010 and the loss and grief that my 83 year old mom is going thru is so painful to watch and to try and help her with her loss of husband and benefits leaving her so hopeless is enough to cause me to want to go to bed and pull the covers over my head... thanks to all of you on the board who are there to give comfort and hope makes things better. Thanks to everyone for all the love and understanding found here.Sorry for rambling hope you are Blessed with sweet memories and comfort in your loss.