I am good at picking out the fabrics and love doing this!!! I find selecting pattern and doing the actual quilting daunting lol Maybe after you pick a pattern you can find a "buddy" to help pick your fabric!!! There have been many times while I am in JoAnns just to get one or two pieces that I run into someone like you that has problems matching fabrics so there I am helping them - wish one day I could see finished projects though lol