Been reading this post over again, and it sounds as if we all want the samething. Just something that they actually think to buy on their own, and actually something we will like and use. Maybe we ARE too hard on them!LOL! I think they really try, maybe we are just getting too spoiled, or maybe we don't really know what we want either. When we are able to go buy what we want , when we want it and they don't complain, well, time to overlook some of their faults. I know my husband loves me, and I know he wants me to have nice things, but he figures I can buy the other "stuff" when I want it. It's sort of like him telling me he needs new underwear for Xmas. I don't want to buy him underwear, he can buy his own! See what I've been getting at?