one year my sister was in a tough spot and wanted to give gifts to me and my sister, but didn't have money to do so. she gave me a "coupon" that I cold redeem for her to come and make me a dinner I would never forget made especially from the ingredients I keep in my cabinets and pantryin my own kitchen. she knew I hate to cook, and of course, our dinner was memorable because her gift was so thoughtful. a few years later I was in her spot, so I gave her a coupon for a free night of babysitting and a day's worth of doing laundry.