Chris,
Welcome from Kentucky. One of my favorite fabric shops here closed in June. It was owned by a man and wife. She has cancer and he wanted to retire so they could do some traveling.
Actually, I preferred shopping when he was working. He was very knowledgeable, friendly, and ready to assist.
Check with your local Extension Office. There may be a quilt guild you can attend. You may have to join Homemakers, but here in Kentucky we welcome male members.