I also remember Rosie Grier, not as a football player, but the needlepoint huge guy. My late husband asked me to teach him knitting with big needles, He got it instantly and knit himself a scarf. I never burnt my bra to have an equal treatment but I let it know when I am not satisfied with service. I am French speaking and belong to an English speaking Guild, Some women translated my name to Martha, I said Sorry my parents called me Marthe. Never pass on something that bothers you!