How many times do we hear or read about "scams", this could be one if you read about her asking all the time for 'free' items. We have been fortunate to be taught to acknowledge a gift, but do not expect one should you give freely. Crazy, yes, but very sad....you gave with your heart, and one day your giving will be returned to you in some way. God loves those who give, and ask nothing in return, He will take care of you. I thank you for wanting to take the time to help this person, do not feel anger, it only makes you feel sad, "we" here on the board thank you.