This might be the same book that tells you when your husband comes in the door you have to look your best and have his chair ready with his paper and drink and when he sits down you untie his shoes and put on his slippers, have the children come in and in a very quiet way tell him about their day , while you finish his dinner Then you put his dinner on a lovely set table and when finished you clean up your kitchen in a spotless manner while he reads the paper after his hard day at work. This was just the way it was at my house. Ha Ha Ha lol etc