Melinda, I'm sorry for you and I do think and hope it will get better.
I'm put off by the commercialition of the holidays. I usually give the grandskids money so they can get what they want and then a little something under the tree. I love being together but I'm SSOOOO glad when it's over! we will celebrate on the 19th, so I'll be sewing and relaxing while the rest of you are pulling your hair out! :shock: ENJOY