I was so relieved when I figured out that it was ok not to do all the old traditions, and to start some new ones. We (DH) put up a small tree we have had for 34 years (!), will put the gifts under it. I am having too much fun sewing to do much else. When our daughter and granddogs come, we will relax and do a jigasw puzzle or 2 and eat and sleep. I was pleasantly surprised when I looked at my list yesterday and found out I need only a couple of small items and I am done shopping. Still have 13 aprons to make, but they will get there sooner or later.