It's too bad Rosie Grier isn't still around. He was that famous pro football player who took up needle-point, and not very many people dared to 'needle' him about it. Why not try a google search for male quilters + your area (city or county) and see what pops up. Or, some quilt shops have bulletin boards where you can place ads...put a short note up asking for male quilters who might like to join a 'guys group'. I'd love to be around some male quilters; they have such a different take on art and composition and it's always a unique learning experience that just doesn't happen with just us gals.