hm don't you agree that WE put the stress on ourselves? When hubby and I decorated, it was a nightmare! He wanted it done, but really didn't want to put up the lights. etc. It took hours of wrapping the garland, decorating the tree, etc, etc, and then a few days later, had to box everything up and get things back to how it was before. This was after alot of arguing, and yes, yelling. Is it worth it>> I don;t THINK so! He has mentioned decorating this year... translation---- he wants ME to bring it up from the basement, and he will "observe" and critique. NOT goin's ta happen. Money is tight all around. Also this year, we are NOT spending and giving when in the past, the gift is NOT appreciated. So, this year, we are sharing a meal, playing Wii, hopefully laughing, and heaven forbid singing. Lets take the commercialism out of CHRISTmas, and get back to what is really important! Call me a Scrooge - but that's the way it is. For all you Martha wannabees, more power to you. YOur house will be the best on the block and people will admire it for at least a month. right?