If it's a sampler you could choose a block out of a book. If it's not, you could consider something a bit creative....For example, how about one block that has a picture of her on it? Or a picture of you and other family members? Or on that final block, embroider her name, birthday and various interesting parts of her life. Or you could put a symbol of your religious affiliation....or a heart block....That said, i think the quilt shop ladies should put on a smile and hep you!