Originally Posted by Melinda in Tulsa
I guess I'm the real scrouge in the bunch. I do not enjoy Christmas, in fact I hardily dislike it. 20 years ago I suffered a devastating loss on Christmas Day. Ever since then, I just can not get into Christmas. Early Dec each year I sink into a depression that I just can not pull myself out of until after the holidays. My wonderful DH understands this and humors me and supports me thru this time.
My children (all grown) just do not understand. I only give gifts to the grandchildren (now I have 2 of them) and I resent the time and money spent there as it is NOT appreciated. I don't decorate, or do anything extra. Sorry to be a party pooper friends. I have finally realized that this sadness will never go away, since it has been 20 years and shows no sign of abating.
But I cheer all of you on that enjoy this time of year!
:thumbup: Have a very Merry and enjoyable Christmas!
even though you had a great loss 20 years ago the reason for our Christmas season is still ever present. Jesus is still here and will help you through that depression and heldp you enjoy thiks timee again. I dreaded Easter for a few years and there are still painful memories of a precious baby daughter going home to be with Jesus but I always know that Christ died on the cross for me and I will see her again. I now enjow even that holiday and it is my favorite of all. PM me if you just want to talk. I will be out of town for a few weeks starting next week but I will check back every few days.