Hi There, Just read your post, girlfriend I know just how you feel. My Mom use to tell me that when your kids are little they walk on your toes and when they are grown they walk on your heart, I never knew what she ment until I had kids of my own, and lord a mercy do I ever know what she ment now. So when your grandchildren come again you make sure that they pick up everything that they took out or they don't take it out. I learned that the hard way with mine,, but now if they take something out they put it back before they leave or the parents do, I refuse to pick up after them anymore, I am to old and delapadated to do that anymore, so you hang in the girl and tomorrow will be a much better day. Sending you a great big HUG.