Things disappear around here also if they are laying around and grandson does not put them away. I put them up and some times he does not miss whatever it is. He is 12 and lives with grandma (me) and HB. He is pretty good and I have taught him to keep his room clean and neat. I am now teaching him to do his laundry. He also cleans up after his dog in the yard and cleans the kitchen after snacks. It took Two yrs to teach him these things. It is a constant thing to keep this up day after day. It will be worth it to see him be a fine young man.