I would had given anything if my husband would had taken a small interest in my quilting hobby. We were total opposites though. He was an old hippie, heavy metal, all sports, loved drinking and so on. Me, more layed back, Southern Gospel music (& other mild stuff), more like the home maker type but also worked. We got along ok but really nothing of interest. I'm alone and seperated for 6 years, we still talk but now he has his friends and I have my dogs and grandkids. A man that quilts is truely a good man, besides who say hobbys have to be labled for man or woman? Heck my Husband was a welder, the best around and he taught me what he knew. Now there are John Deere tractors running around somewhere with parts that I've welded! To each his own! Live and let live, and anything else you can think of!!