I was 6 months pregnant with my son, family Christmas with his and my family there. He bought and wrapped it himself, a painted mirror. It had a girl somewhat topless but not really showing things. I opened that in front of our families and was shocked and hurt. His comment was it reminded him of me. Hello better look again???!!! He got it from his dad and his mom big time. Went out the next day and got me the new microwave I wanted, knowing the rule of if it plugs it not a gift he was worried it was the wrong gift. Amazingly in Sept we will be married 40 years. some of his gifts are still sometimes on the "what were you thinking?" side but never as bad as that one. and the good ones really surprise me. Last year he got me a green house. Came up with the idea all by himself.