first xmas ater my divorse my boys and I had xmas at my mom and dads house.I was glad that the boys had a nice xmas and were happy. I over heard my mom fuss at my dad though where was my gift. He was suppose to of picked it up at same time as the little girl our family babysat since she was 6 months old(she was 14 then).It didn't bother me until then. Not about recieving but the idea that he didn't think of his own daughter. After my stepmom died he got remarried and told me that nothing exist before them and that included me. I haven't seen him in 18 years this month.He told me that when my husband was in Desert Storm. Even then though I realized it was his lost not my family or me cause he is just damaged goods.