Thank you everyone. I think I will include a little note with our holiday cards that I am sending out this weekend. I like the idea of letting her know that we will appreciate the items and are praying for her. We would love to call and talk to her but we have been told that she has requested that everyone stops calling. She does not want any phone calls :( If she wants to talk she will call you :( Makes us a little sad but she does live with her sister and brother inlaw. So she does have someone to make sure she is ok. It's a huge family. She is one of 10 kids. And all of them have had families of their own and so on and so on. So I can understand it. She is still working. So it is ok that she wants her time and to rest. I just wish she had a better outlook instead of the doom and gloom.