We set up Skype when my son was in Japan for a semester. Once set up it is really easy and a great way to communicate. You could show her ideas and she can show you what she has done. You will need a camera for your computer- any of the stores like Best Buy and Staples can help you set it up.
You are a great friend to help her with this, she needs some way to put her emotional pain into a physical task. My heart goes out to her!