What tragic news. I have made several quilts for others when someone in their family dies. I use their clothes and have made bow tie quilts, scrap quilts, and ones with stars. If you have any photos of the baby, those can be scanned on to "fabric paper" such as Printed Treasures by Milliken or EQ Printables by The Electric Quilt Company. I'm sorry that I don't have any photos to share of quilts I've done this way.