I totally agree with the last two relplies!!! Don't "suffer in silence"...won't do either of you any good,,,especially this close to Christmas. You say it doesn't matter and you will get over it, but obviously it does bother you, because your anger is coming out in your posts. You need to clear the air dear, or your resentment is just going to get bigger and bigger. You need to find out what his reasoning was on this and the answer may be a very simple one. Good luck, hope you work it out, and if you really feel the need to punch something, punch a big bag of batting so you don't hurt your quilting hand!! LOL