Some of us are matchy matchy type of people, some can make something from what I consider "ugly" into something beautiful.
I have learned over the last 10 years that perfection isn't all it's cracked up to be. It is OK to have a few boo-boo's that only you will see! You have to have boo-boo's in order to learn. Hey, that is my story and I am sticking to it! LOL
My friend can take fabric that I don't even think matches closely, and come out with a quilt that is goregeous! I have learned to let the OCD go a bit when quilting.
Please post a picture of your quilt. I really want to see it. Oh yes, fabric does "talk" to me! LOL