It's good for you if you can let go but if it still keeps nagging at you at times, you'll have to talk to him. Communication, specially in a marriage is very important. And I found out myself that nagging thoughts can eventually turn into anger and.....
"Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it stands than to anything on which it is poured. - Anonymous"
You have a lovely and blessed Christmas with your dear hubby.