Originally Posted by leatheflea
Well I went and got my son for the week, didnt give ex any money. I have helped him in the past with money for groceries, A long distance card so his wife could call her kids. He's not mine to take care of anymore. My son will have a good christmas at my house, I cant cure his dad I tried for years, hopeless case. He has found a job though my son says! Yeah for him! And my pocket. Thanks for all your thoughts, you gals are great!
I'm SO proud of you!!!!! I know how hard that was but you're doing the right thing. You don't owe your ex anything. It sounds like we've both tried to help our ex's and in doing so they never hit the bottom and learn how to pull themselves back up. I finally told myself I've tried everything I could and have given him more than enough breaks and its time to take care of my kids and myself. Hang in there.
High fives to you!!!!!! :thumbup: