unless asked for complete honesty and in able to make changes. I too try to stay positive. But if there is an opportunity to make a changes, I try to positively spin any comments I make about changing their choices. But I see that if someone takes the time to ask for feed back I will give it but I also try to give an idea of how to make it even better. I would rather have someone say that they didn't like my whatever as long as they can tell me why and a why to make it look or be better. that is the whole reason for asking for advise. now I will step off my soap box.