I am among the belief that Christmas is not about expensive gifts. I think it has gotten so out of hand for some, yes we buy are boys gifts and different things thru out the year.
But a gift can be a pair of gloves,a favorite candy bar stash,a pair of earphones, a needed pair of pants. No your Ex may not be able to do expensive but their are many non-expensive choices.
One of my boys (14) wants and engine(he's building a go-cart- pretty much from scraps) well you know what he's not going to get one for Christmas and will need to save for it whether he wants new or used or bartar for one.Besides it will give me time to get use to the whole idea of a motor.hee hee Anyways I don't mean to offend anyone I just wanted to give some suggestions. Best Wishes..
I just read the recent post. GOOD JOB! You will have a Wonderful Time and enjoy your time with your son.