I went into my son's garage and found a beautiful crochet
table cloth strung over some boxes and it was made by my daughter in-laws grandmother.
The kids made them a tent. My Son' told me at least it was getting some use.
No your not being selfish and you are not alone in family not appreciating hand made gifts.
My daughter in-law is very appreciative of the table cloths I make her from cotton. But chrochet work is not there thing. SAD Have fun decorating your new home.