Hi, I have lurked on this forum for months and love it.I just had to join this topic,I have a daughter who has been a drunk and crack addict for 33 years.I have raised my grand son for most of his life, he has been with us permently for 6 years.He is the love of my life. His mom just called an hour ago, drunk wanting to see her (baby) for christmas.I told her NO.There comes a time when you just can not take any more.My grandson is now 13 and I am over any sympathy for his parents.I know there is hope for ever one and I pray for you and your son.Hope you have a wonderful holiday. jean