Jean, thank you for raising your grandson. From one person and productive member of society to another, you saved him from a terrible fate. He has the chance to grow and prosper and be whatever he is capable of being, thanks to you (and anyone else in your family who helps). You are a strong and wise woman. Never, ever let her near your grandson although I'm sure you don't need to be reminded of that. God bless you all and may you make some wonderful family memories this Christmas. Merry Christmas. And Happy Quilting in the new year!!