I know how you feel. A few weeks ago I posted a pic of the quilt I spent months on for my mom's b'day. When I gave to her she thanked me and oohéd a little, but not quite the reaction i had hoped for. (my sibs give them trips to Paris, Cabo, etc.). When family was all there a few days later, she had it out on display, but grand kids from cross-country napping on sofa could not wrap up in it- afghans for them. Yesterday- christmas- she asked me why i didn't put a label on it- that I need to be labeling all of my beautiful work. Shock! So you never know how anyone REALLY feels. Just give with the same love you made it with!