That is just human nature, I think. We had a nationally known speaker at our QG who talked about this and she said pretty strongly that we need to either fix it or be quiet about it. I have been trying because in theory, I agree, in real life, I find it hard to do. My daughter and I joke about it. When I gave her a robe I made her Christmas, she was admiring it and of course I wanted to point out what I thought I had done wrong, but then couldn't find it! Gave us a good laugh anyway. We have a tendency for for perfectionism in our family and it can sometimes be hard to live with. That is why we try to joke about it.